I was about to write some snarky comment about how LOnG these 39 days have been, but I was immediately reminded of the family meeting with the neurologist on the heaven forsaken 'day 1' in which we were told it could be weeks or months before dad woke up (if ever). And look at us now! 39 days and headed home next Wednesday. Perspective, it's a beautiful thing. Rehab was status quo today. They are working him so hard lately. His days start at 7:30 and end around 4:00. After therapy today my Mom helped him to take a shower and shave his face. She is worried his hygiene will be lacking after this as he never wants to shower (but would you if some stranger followed you in every time?) He had a great attitude about it today though and I can see he is regaining some pride in his independence. Somehow I was even convinced to help cut his toenails, which is really saying something because 1) i hate feet more than anything and 2) my dad's feet are among the grossest I have ever seen. Mom has been so amazing through this process. She literally sits with him for 10-11 hours a day, cheers him through therapy, takes him to the bathroom, helps him shower and provides him with constant reassurance and love.
The doctors found a new infection starting around his feeding tube so they will be adding an antibiotic and running blood cultures to ensure this is not a big problem. Although eating entirely by mouth now (hooray for mechanical soft foods!) the feeding tube must be in place for 6 weeks for proper healing. By my calculations, this means we are at least three weeks away from removal. Tomorrow they want to take him for a walk outside. I am excited for him to see the sunshine again and breathe some fresh air.
We are all looking forward to next week. Dad is far less critical and much more independent. We are providing extra supports to ensure his safety at home (railings and such) but I know his healing will continue for months and even years.
So thankful to God for his blessing to all of you and that Judd is coming home. Keep working hard. You made me laugh--I give pedicures and manicures for Bruce since the accident---not what I had planned on--and haircuts. Keep a sense of humor and go forward. We love you and are cheering you on. Prayers and love. From Bruce and Gracie Hill
ReplyDeleteSO excited he gets to come home!! That will make him heal so much faster. =) We'll keep praying for continued success. Love the Womack Clan.♥
ReplyDeleteIt will be good to see you and work with you again. Hurry home!
ReplyDeleteSuch good news about going home next week. Your Mother has been amazing and she will continue this journey at home. I found that after 46 days at the U. Of U. Getting home was where the real test was and is, but its our new normal and it all works out. When you lose your independence and dignity in a hospital, it can be very frustrating, hearing that your Dad does not want to shower is no surprise. I took control of that whole situation so my wife Linda could have some sort of privacy and your Mom is a wonderful women for doing this. Getting your Dad home will be some of the best medicine he could have. It will take some adjusting, but he will be just fine. Just keep fighting, keep working and keep loving!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat wonderful news! All of you are still in our thoughts and prayers. I know a whole group of 'last year' DYW just waiting for the word to come and help in ANY way when you get home. They have been so very concerned about you all....especially Sue. They love her dearly. Continued 'good luck' being sent your way!
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